by Harriet E. Michael
Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her. Proverbs 31:28 NIV
Mothers come in every shape and size. They come as biological mothers, adoptive mothers, and women whom others claim as their mother in some way or form, such as spiritual mothers.
I have a sweet friend who grew up in a different kind of home situation. Her biological mother, whom she loved very much, had six children by three different men she never married. My friend did not know her father very well, and she lost contact with many of her siblings who had moved away by the time she got married.
That friend asked me to be one of her bridesmaids along with a few others who were like sisters to her. A former high school teacher stood in for her mother, who had passed away from cancer. My friend teased that, since she didn’t have a real family, she made one out of people who had loved her through the years.
Each May we celebrate mothers, and I have grown to appreciate that this honor is not exclusive to a woman who physically gave birth. A mother is anyone who acts motherly toward those whom God has placed in her life to mentor, shepherd, love, or help.
Jesus displayed this same understanding that family is not exclusively between people related biologically. In a poignant scene, while hanging on the cross close to death, Jesus spoke words to John telling him to take care of Mary—Jesus’ mother—as if she were John’s mother:
Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother, his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to her, ‘Woman, here is your son,’ and to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ From that time on, this disciple took her into his home. John 19:25 – 27 NIV
In Jesus’ day, women did not hold jobs and depended on their husbands or sons to support them. Jesus had honored his mother by providing for her earthly needs, even as he was dying.
Another touching aspect of that scene is the image of Mary standing near the foot of the cross watching her beloved, perfect child being crucified. To some degree, I can put myself in her shoes. I have experienced times when one of my children suffered and I could do nothing but stand by and agonize. This, too, speaks volumes about the sometimes-difficult roles God calls mothers to play.
Families are not always those who share the same genes. So, to all mothers of any kind, happy Mother’s Day to you. For all the time, energy, and effort you have invested in another human being, we honor you.
This article is brought to you by the Advanced Writers and Speakers Association (AWSA).
About the author: Harriet E. Michael is an award-winning and widely published author and freelance writer. She has authored or co-authored ten books, with three more under contract for release in 2024 and ’25. She has penned hundreds of articles and devotions that have been published in various publications.
Harriet’s new release, Wonder and Worship, is a unique devotional with opportunities to dig into the meanings of well-known hymns and worship music, and will challenge the reader with lesser-known Bible verses and facts, inspiring readers to grow in their understanding and their relationship with God.
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