Like A Robert Redford Double Take

by Nan Corbitt Allen

Even a child is known by his doings… Proverbs 20:11 KJV

Everyone is known for something. A physical attribute. A personality trait. A character element. A power. A weakness. A quirkiness. A good or bad deed. When someone you know is mentioned in conversation, you might think or say, “Oh, he’s that guy/girl who…”

Well, I notice quirkiness, repeated behavior, and verbal recurrences. And I tend to label others by some trait or behavior. For instance, every time I see the actor Robert Redford on the screen, I already know that he is going to do a “double take”—or several. (Double take means a delayed reaction to a surprising or significant situation after an initial failure to notice anything unusual.)

Redford is notorious, at least in my book, for his repeated, but endearing, reactions to a character or line of dialogue. In his movie Sneakers—my all-time favorite film—I’ve counted eleven double takes. There may be more, but no matter. That’s what I think of when I see him.

Have you ever wondered what you’re known for?

Some of our Bible heroes were known for what they did, not necessarily for who they were. For instance, Moses had a temper. It drove him to kill an Egyptian soldier and then hide his body in the sand. Later, Moses was angry with the nomadic Israelites when they complained (which was often) about their lack of water. God had given Moses the command to speak to a rock and water would come out. Once before, Moses had struck a rock for water, but this time the instructions were different. He was to speak to the rock. Moses, in a rage, struck the rock. Yes, water did come out, but God held him accountable for that for the rest of his life.

Moses isn’t known for his displays of temper, however. He’s best known for receiving the Ten Commandments and leading his people out of Egyptian slavery. Known not for his flaws, but for his moments of obedience.

Noah, that guy who built an ark, was a heavy drinker. Jacob, the one who started the Israelite nation with his 12 sons, was a deceiver. David, the man after God’s own heart, was an adulterer and a murderer. Elijah was a pouter, but he kept his people from being corrupted by false gods.

Maybe I’m pushing it too much to mention Robert Redford and Moses on the same page, but still it brings up the question—what are you known for—your physical quirks, your failures and weaknesses, or your moments of obedience? It’s something to think about, and something you may not know for sure. Others may perceive you differently than you see yourself. You may evaluate who you are by what you’ve done in the past. Others may revere you for overcoming a checkered past. You may see yourself as a hero for something you’ve done, but others may see you as being arrogant and boastful about one action.

It’s interesting that Jesus asked His disciples what others were saying about Him, like He didn’t already know. Their response was that some of the people thought Jesus was the reappearance of a long-dead prophet or maybe John the Baptist. Then surprisingly, He asked them what they thought of Him. Peter answered “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God” (Matthew 16:16 NASB).

Well, Peter got it right, but it didn’t keep him or the others from distancing themselves from Him when times got tough. Peter denied. Thomas doubted. Judas betrayed.

Now three things come to mind:

1) Be careful that your actions reflect who you truly are.

2) Don’t judge someone else by one isolated deed. Remember Paul persecuted Christians and then became one of the most dedicated and revered believers in history.

3) Don’t let someone else’s opinion become your reality. Remember God sees you differently.

But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God” (John 1:12 NIV)…and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ…(Romans 8:17 NIV).

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Nan Corbitt Allen

About the author: Nan Corbitt Allen has written over 100 published dramatic musicals, sketchbooks, and collections in collaboration with Dennis Allen, her husband of 45+ years. A three-time Dove Award winner, Nan’s lyrics and dramas have been performed around the world. Dennis and Nan have sold almost 3 million choral books.

Nan and Dennis retired in 2020 from full time teaching at Truett McConnell University. They now live south of Nashville. They have two grown sons and two beautiful grandchildren.

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Nan’s book, Small Potatoes @ the Piggly Wiggly, is a collection of devotionals that reveal the great impact seemingly insignificant, routine experiences can have in our lives. She describes what she learned of God’s providence and wisdom while growing up in the Deep South in the 1950’s and 60’s.

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A Child, Not an Orphan

by Cindi McMenamin

“But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name.” John 1:12 NASB

The other day I found myself living like an orphan. I was worrying about bills I couldn’t pay. I was fretting about what might happen in a situation that I couldn’t control. Basically, I was forgetting who I really was and to Whom I belonged.

By worrying, fretting, and forgetting who I was, I was not living like a cared-for child of God. I was living like an orphan who was on her own.

When you and I trust Christ alone for the forgiveness of our sin and for our eternal life, we become His adopted child (John 1:12; Romans 8:14-17). And in that relationship, we have a new identity that does not include the corruption or chaos of our past, the problems in our present, or the fears for our future. Our past wounds don’t define us either.

In our new role, God not only calls us His child, but He calls us forgiven (Colossians 1:14) and complete (Colossians 2:10), even though we might still feel like a work in progress. His Word also tells us we are secure in Him (Romans 8:1-2) – free from condemnation (Romans 8:31-34) and free from the possibility of abandonment (Hebrews 13:5).

Furthermore, God’s Word says we are royalty – seated with Him in the heavenly places (Ephesians 2:6)! And we are unconditionally loved – meaning nothing will be able to separate us from the love of God — not death, life, circumstances, sin, poor choices, a season of rebellion, nothing!

So, why do we stress and worry about what we can’t control? Are we saying “God has forgotten me?” Are we thinking He won’t really be a good Father to His children? When you and I worry we are saying to the world “I am on my own. I have no one to help me.” That’s what an orphan believes. When we trust in our heavenly Father we can live like His child – one who says My Father is with me. And He will help me.

The more you and I reaffirm who we are in Christ, the more our behavior will reflect our true identity – loved, well-cared-for children of the Most High God.

Live like a loved child of God – not an orphan.

Forgive me, Lord, for the times I forget how good of a Father You really are. Help me to live like Your loved child, not one who is abandoned and on her own.  

View More: http://chelseamariephoto.pass.us/cindiAbout the author: Cindi McMenamin is an award-winning writer and national speaker who helps women strengthen their relationship with God and others. She is the author of 16 books including When Women Walk Alone (more than 120,000 copies sold), God’s Whispers to a Woman’s Heart, and Drama Free: Finding Peace When Emotions Overwhelm You. For more on her books and resources to strengthen your soul, marriage, and parenting, or for more information on her coaching services to help you write the book on your heart, see her website: www.StrengthForTheSoul.com.

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