Demystifying the Cinderella Syndrome

by Cynthia Cavanaugh @CavCynthia

My father has affectionately called me his Cinderella for as long as I can remember. But my story, unlike the fairy-tale Cinderella, is not a tale of servant girl eventually living happily ever after with her prince. Rather it is a tale of experiencing brokenness to redemption, and living out the reality of being redeemed.

I don’t do it perfectly, or as Paul said, “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me” (Philippians 3:12 NIV). I long to do the same, to live out my relationship with Jesus before the rest of the world.

Reflecting redemption can be challenging with the kind of noise that has been deafening as of late. It was really hard to not jump in and join the rants and raves on social media about the recent election. I read, listened, watched and prayed. Such division and hostility. It makes me sick and sad all at the same time.

Today was a fresh reminder of that as we had our windows worked on by two repairmen.  One had an accent, and I asked him where he was from. He hesitated and said he was originally from Mexico. As we began to talk, he shared with me how he loved his job, but recently he was sensing hate and fear from various clients. Lawns were littered with signs of campaign supporters that he knew were reproachful about his heritage. I sadly assured him that in my home, he was welcome to express his thoughts and opinions.

God is in the process of redeeming us even in the face of the noise and madness of our world. It is a manifestation of just how patient He really is. I actually struggle with God’s patience at times. And yet, I know it is a part of the narrative that is being written on His plan of redemption for the world.

I ask you, can we walk as redeemed people and practice the humility that Jesus lived? Can we, in our bantering back and forth, carefully choose to state our opinions with courage, and yet sprinkle them with kindness?

There is a line in the recent remake of Cinderella at the end of the story when the prince discovers his mystery princess and asks, “Who are you?”

She steps forward and says, “I am Cinderella, I’m no princess. I have no carriage, no parents, no dowry, and I don’t even know if that beautiful slipper will fit. But if it does, will you take me as I am?”

As I watched this scene, I envisioned presenting myself to the Prince of Heaven: Will you take me, as I am, each and every day?

He whispered in my soul throughout the rest of that day:

You are my treasure…Exodus 19:5, I rejoice over you with singing…Zephaniah 3:17. As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart…Isaiah 40:11. One day I will wipe away every tear from your eyes…Revelation 21:3-4

This is the redemption God gives us through His son Jesus. We can offer nothing to Him but flaws and failings. He redeems us and creates in us a new life. We only have to be willing to admit our need. Our redemption then comes full circle as we wake up each day with confidence, believing that our lives matter and can make a difference to all we encounter. It really is a Cinderella story.

When we turn to Jesus our Cinderella story always leads to happily-ever-after – @CavCynthia on @AriseDailyDevo (Click to Tweet)

cynthia cavanaughAbout the author: Cynthia Cavanaugh is the author of five books, including Anchored, and is a speaker, life coach, and leadership professor at Trinity Western University. She knows nothing about coffee and is a self-proclaimed tea addict who loves connecting with women helping them to flourish. 

Join the conversation: Do you have a favorite verse that speaks of God’s love for you?


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